What prompted me to write this blog is the autistic and ADHD son of my friend.
I have long put out a disclaimer that I don’t want to deal with autism or certain cases of ADHD. Why? It is because I was trained to teach college level English for academic purpose to students who are English as a second language (ESL) or English as a foreign language (EFL) learners. There is big difference between teaching academic track students and vocational track students. I enjoy teaching the academic tract students more; that is just my personal preference. When I think about autism and ADHD, I tend to think about the enormous amount of energy spent on “babysitting” and dealing with what I consider to be “lower level” matters such as behavioral problems. I just prefer to spend time teaching academic English to ESL or EFL students. I love teaching dyslexics who are often extremely bright and fun to be with.
It wasn’t until recently that I came to realize that a language-based problem such as dyslexia, a reading disability, is often overlooked in those who have profound behavioral issues. The attention is mostly on the annoying and distracting behaviors; the parents, the teachers, and the other professionals working with the child is literally “putting out fires” trying to contain the behavior problems that the learning issues are left unsolved until too late. That is, for most of the child’s school-life, time and energy is devoted to constraining the troublesome behaviors and not much teaching/learning actually happened.
In the case of my friend’s 19 yr. old son, he has been causing trouble for the teachers since elementary school. He is known by his misbehavior more than his ability to learn, which is unfortunate.
As I got to know my friend’s autistic son, something dawned on me: this boy also has a reading disability— dyslexia— but the attention has been mostly focused on his annoying behaviors! Since this boy is already out of the public school system and is in vocational training, his mother had to pay for a tutor to give him extra help.
The tutor I selected for him is a licensed personal trainer as well as a professional writer. In other words, this tutor is not going to be intimidated by the lad’s inappropriate behavior and, at the same time, he is also good in English and able to teach reading, at least, in the initial stages. In a few months time, the autistic and ADHD boy showed marked improvements in his social behavior. His tutor has been very kind to him and he took the behavior-challenged lad under his wings like a younger brother; sometimes, he would even bring him along to go on outings with his buddies!
As the inappropriate behaviors subsided through the work of the male tutor who was often like a big brother, I launched the next stage of our intervention. This time, I have arranged for a tutor who is trained specifically in teaching those with language-based learning disabilities. This time the tutor is a female and I had to make sure that the autistic lad has made enough progress in his behavior before I introduced the new tutor!
One thing we, that is, the mother, myself, and the tutors, have all noticed is that the behavior and language ability of this autistic and ADHD lad improved at about the same rate. It was as if one was feeding into the other.
I have some theories about why this is happening but I will save that for another blog. The lesson that I want to pass on here is this: we must not neglect the language domain when an autistic and/or ADHD child is “kicking up dust and spewing steam” in his/her bad behavior. Often, when the problems in the language domain are addressed— and autism being a communication disorder—the behavior also improves.